Who You Are to Me
by Chris Tomlin
Theology & Meaning
Who You Are to Me is a deeply personal declaration of what Jesus means to the individual believer — not merely a theological proposition about Jesus but the lived reality of who He is in relationship. Drawing on John 15:15's revelation that Jesus calls His followers friends and Galatians 2:20's personal ownership of the crucifixion ('who loved me and gave himself for me'), the song celebrates the intimacy of the believer's relationship with Christ.
Worship Leadership Tips
Chris Tomlin's collaboration with Lady Antebellum (Lady A) gives this song unusual crossover appeal. Works in intimate worship settings, services focused on the personal love of God, or in contexts reaching people outside the church. The accessible, country-influenced feel works across demographic boundaries.
Arrangement Tips
Country-influenced contemporary worship with acoustic guitar as the foundation. The song has a duet quality when two vocalists share it. Keep the arrangement warm and personal rather than grand or anthemic — this is an intimate song and should feel that way. The simplicity of the production honors the relational quality of the text.
Scripture References
- John 15:15
- Galatians 2:20
- Colossians 3:11