How He Loves
Theology & Meaning
John Mark McMillan's song (popularized by David Crowder Band) uses overwhelm-language — 'sloppy wet kiss,' 'heaven meets earth like a sloppy wet kiss' (or in the sanitized version, 'unforeseen kiss') — to communicate the radical, boundary-crossing nature of divine love. The theology engaged is Ephesians 3:17-19's 'breadth and length and height and depth' of Christ's love 'that surpasses knowledge' — the point being that divine love exceeds rational categorization and can only be experienced and proclaimed, not systematically contained. Zephaniah 3:17's God who 'rejoices over you with singing' and 1 John 4:10's love that was initiated from the divine side ('not that we loved God but that he loved us') ground the overwhelming quality of the love in divine initiative.
Worship Leadership Tips
One of the most-used worship songs of the 2010s — the congregation's deep familiarity means the worship leader must work against rote singing. Ask the congregation to consider specific moments when they have experienced the overwhelming love of God described in the song. The song is most powerful when it produces genuine personal encounter rather than nostalgic familiarity. This song works most effectively when preceded by brief pastoral or teaching context that frames its theological themes. Help the congregation understand not just the lyrics but the biblical foundation and pastoral application. Consider using in services aligned with the song's thematic content — whether a sermon series, prayer ministry focus, or seasonal emphasis. Allow sufficient time for congregants to engage genuinely with the song's message rather than rushing through. The song's power depends on authentic participation, not perfected performance. Avoid leading with energy that overshadows the theological content; instead, prioritize clarity and intentionality. Follow with space for prayer, reflection, or testimony. In many cases, this song functions best not as opener but as central moment in worship where the congregation can engage deeply with its themes through music.
Arrangement Tips
Works in virtually any configuration from piano solo to full rock band. The Crowder Band arrangement is electrified indie-rock; a simpler piano or acoustic guitar version is equally moving and sometimes more intimate. The long, spacious sections allow for extended musical breath — do not rush through this song. Tempo management is crucial — the moderate tempo of this song (72 bpm) should be maintained consistently throughout to preserve the intended emotional landscape. Consider instrumentation choices that serve the song's content: sparse arrangements allow lyrical clarity and theological weight to land, while fuller arrangements create emotional resonance through texture and layering rather than pure volume or complexity. Dynamics are more important than decibels. A song about intimacy with God should not be loud; a song about cosmic praise can build energy through added instrumentation rather than volume. In every arrangement choice, ask: "Does this serve the song's message or distract from it?" Test arrangements with different configurations — what works for a contemporary rock band may differ from what serves an acoustic or liturgical setting. The most effective versions prioritize the song's theological and emotional content over impressive musicianship. Build dynamic curves that match the lyrical narrative rather than generic energy trajectories. Lead musicians should understand the song's pastoral purpose so arrangement choices serve that purpose. Rehearse with attention to how instrumental parts support rather than overwhelm vocal clarity. The goal is ultimately transparency that allows the congregation's worship focus to rest on God, not on the musicianship.
Scripture References
- 1 John 4:10
- Romans 8:38-39
- Ephesians 3:17-19
- Zephaniah 3:17
- Song of Solomon 2:4